2008/07/07

Burger and me


I would never forget the first sentence with which Louisa May Alcott used to start the world famous novel "Little Women"--"Christmas won't be Christmas without any presents." For us people in the East, Christmas may not arouse some profound feelings as such. Nevertheless, this sentence still can grasp my attention. And I believe many othr people, even though they're not celebrating Christmas, would think alike. Why? It's because "Christmas never has to be the holiday per se." It just metonymically refers to anything that means a lot to an individual; it could be anything.

For me, I would paraphrase Alcott to suit my temperament--"A home won't be a home without a dog." For this reason, my girlfriend and I finally made up our minds to look for a dog for our sweet home. The photo above is a snapshot of Burger and me. Some of you may wonder why I needed to "make up my mind" to have a dog. The explanation to such a question can never be easy for me. This is sort of paradoxical....

I had a dog named Dodo and he had kept me company for many years. Nearly one year after the completion of my master thesis, he left me and my family and would never return. I've lamented his death for quite a long time, and tended to think that I would not get a dog as Dodo is not replaceabe; he is my family, not just a pet. But recently, I come to realize that it's all about karma. Dodo will be living in my memory and never be far away. And now, the karma between Burger and me has arose just now....

7 comments:

Anonymous said...

保羅恭喜你要結婚囉 看了一下你的相簿 你是跟東吳德文教授謝志偉合影嗎~~ joy

Paul's Blog said...

謝謝,可惜我結婚的時候你不在台灣,不然可以見識一下台灣現在已經不多見的流水席婚宴。而且我媽吃素,他堅持要請天恩素食來做全素食的外燴,我大弟結婚時也是請天恩做外燴,真的還不錯吃!

那個相簿是我高中學妹結婚的現場,我學妹念東吳時跟謝志偉教授學過德文,那時候他還是東吳德文系系主任。結婚那天他當證婚人,因為我個人還滿喜歡他的,那天邀請他合影,他也爽快的答應,真的很有親和力。

Athena Hu said...

狗狗陪伴我們的過程是快樂且幸福洋溢的,他可以溫暖我們的心,也讓日常生活增添許多的光彩。雖然最後的日子,對主人而言是莫大的煎熬,但人生的生老病死何止這一椿,煎熬終究能讓我們趨向堅毅,乃至平常心看待生生死死。祝福你們一家幸福快樂,歡笑聲不斷!

Paul's Blog said...

但幼犬照顧起來梃累人的,前天一大早就被他的叫聲吵醒,原來拉肚子,醫生說狀況還好,但檢查其他地方卻發現耳朵有耳疥蟲,要完成整個療程還需要一段時間,而且其他的預防針也都還沒打,以前讀書不覺得照顧狗有什麼,現在一邊上班一邊還要照料他的健康,才發現是件不容易的事。

Athena Hu said...

聽你這樣說,讓我想到仔仔剛抱回來的時候,從嘴巴吐出好幾條迴蟲,那時候自己還是學生,真是手忙腳亂,看了兩三家醫生才搞定他。還好以後還有你太太幫忙照顧,兩個人就會覺得輕鬆一些。

新娘子回娘家 said...

真是佩服你有條不紊辦妥人生數大事
看來我也弄個blog
免得老是忘記不該忘的
年紀大了真是
恭喜again喔! --Kate

Paul's Blog said...

你回到台灣了嗎?好久沒你的消息了,好湊巧我們剛好都是今年完成終身大事,你很好玩耶,一到國外就幾乎沒你的消息了,我看你真的要弄個部落格,不然都沒消沒息的。